Feeling Loved Changes Your Perspective on Life

By | March 31, 2018

Feeling loved changes your perspective on life. Yet, maybe you feel as if the people in your life don’t love you at the level you want. Perhaps you feel a sense of loneliness, even if you’re in a relationship.

No doubt about it, every single one of us wants to be loved. Regardless of who you are or what you do, feeling loved is what makes life worth living. Love is the one thing all of us desire more than anything else in life.

The Truth About Feeling Loved!

However, when we don’t feel loved, it’s not because there is a lack of love in our lives. Instead, it’s because at some deep level we just don’t believe we are loved.

Far too many of us don’t believe that we are worthy of love. Sometimes we hold onto limiting beliefs that we aren’t lovable or deserving of love. Other people believe that there’s a limited amount of love, and there’s not enough to go around. And some believe that the people who are trying to love them aren’t doing a good job of loving them in the right way.

But the fact of the matter is, the worst story you can ever make up is that you are not lovable.

Do You Believe in Love?

Beliefs are powerful things.  In scripture Jesus said, “All things are possible to those who believe.”  But it’s also true that all things are impossible to those who believe. It’s just a matter of perspective.

In other words, if you believe in love then love is what you will experience. Yet, if you believe that you are unlovable then that lack of love is what you will experience.

That’s why Jesus also said, “According to your faith let it be done to you”  

Simply stated, if you don’t believe, if you don’t have faith that you are lovable, that becomes your experience. And when you don’t believe you are loved that’s when you restrict your experience of love.

Remember, when you are “not feeling the love,” it’s not about a lack of love; it’s about a lack of belief.  It’s about not believing that you are loved or worthy of love.

What’s more, when you feel loved, life feels so good!

Life is easier when you feel loved. Feeling loved leads to you being more joyful and confident. You feel supported and safe. And you can experience more of the beauty in life.

Unfortunately, when people don’t feel loved, life is much harder.  That’s when people tend to be crankier and not trust other people.  Their level of joy and optimism isn’t as high, and solutions to our problems seem far away.

What Do You Believe About Love?

There is a very different experience of life between believing you are loved and believing you aren’t.

Now the question becomes, what do you believe about love? What do you believe about your own worthiness and ability to love and be loved? And what do you believe about other people’s power to give or take away love from you?

Please understand that what you believe determines the amount of love you can experience in your life.

How different would your life be if you spent every moment of your life believing that you are loved? Would you walk and talk and differently? How differently would you treat yourself? What would your relationships look like? Would your work life be the same as it is now?

Believing we are loved is one of the most powerful ways we can lift our lives to greater levels of joy, happiness and fulfillment.

And if you are ready to develop a strong belief that you are loved. If you want to begin to live from a place of knowing that you are loved.

How to Feel Loved

Then the first thing you will want to do is spend time connecting to the ultimate source of Love. Just in case you are wondering that ultimate source of love is God.

When you spend time connecting to God in prayer and meditation, you begin to realize the truth. You begin to understand that you are created in the image of God.

And that means that you are created in the likeness of love.

Be still and know that God’s power and love is within you.

Indeed, you are created by love and are your own unique expression of God’s love in this world.

Affirmation for Feeling Loved

To help you connect to that spirit of love within you, affirm over and over…

“God loves me; God loves me; I am love.”

When someone believes they aren’t loved that’s when they start looking outside of themselves for love. They forget that the love they seek is within them. And they begin to cling to the limiting belief that other people are the source of real love.

As a result, they begin to do and say whatever they think is necessary for someone else to love them. That’s when a person tries to please the people around them to “validate” their worthiness of being loved.

Yet, the fact of the matter is nothing outside of yourself can fill you with the love that’s waiting for you on the inside.

You can only feel fulfilled when you connect to the love and light of God that is within you.

Seeking love on the outside might lead to a temporary feeling of love and happiness. But no one person, no matter how fabulous they are, can provide you with as much love as you need.

It just doesn’t work that way; the love that you seek must come from within.

Spend time in prayer and meditation to realize that you are loved and supported by God.

Once you connect to that power and love of God you can never be in want.

You are loved

And you are blessed beyond measure because the power of God is within you.

All the love you could ever want is already there, it’s within you, just waiting for you to tap into it.

The only thing you must do is believe that it is true, that it is real.

Yes, you are loved.

This is the truth.  And you need to live your life from this truth…

You are love and You are loved.

In the end, no matter what, in every moment, whether you succeed or fail, you are loved.

And you are always worthy of God’s love.

You are a beloved and blessed child of God, and God loves you.

Indeed, feeling loved always changes your perspective on life.